Many loves the rain it washes away tears of all those who have lost something, their someone..
The smell is like breathing of a new beginning!!!

;s

it's always the same in every relationship, there is always one person crying and wishing to get back together, while the other doesn't even remember the things they've been through.. I hate the fact that i have to be the one who remembers every little detail while you can't seem to remember me at all!..

single-blessedness

Being tied down to a relationship leads to many what-ifs. Now that you are single, it is time to eradicate all the ifs that have accumulated in your life.

Let's face it, one guy cannot and probably will never be able to fulfill all your fantasies. Take this time to meet new people and enjoy the company of different guys without tying yourself down to one.

This way, you get to figure out what exactly you want in a guy. There are many men out there who will probably make good husbands and partners, but what's good for one woman isn't necessarily good for all. Now that you are single, you have all the opportunity and chance to shop around and see who complements you the best.

Enjoying single blessedness starts with loving one's self. It includes taking care of your self. You need not wait for a significant someone to pamper you. This sense of security and self-confidence radiate within you and these will attract the best of people.

How to find fellow singles
It is hard to remain single when people around you are getting hitched and having children. There are various opportunities and proper venues where you can go and find your perfect partner. Some of these include:

1) Other countries, cities, and interesting places
Go out and see the world! Just log on to the net and you will find that it is filled with travel opportunities that are ideal for a single girl like you. If your purse prevents you from travelling far, day trips are also available. Not only will you meet new friends, you will be exposed to new cultures, as well.

2) Seminars and enrichment classes
Want to learn a foreign language but never had the chance? Call cultural centers to see what they are offering. They usually have short workshops that range from language classes, writing, and painting. For sure, you will have something in common with the person you will meet in these venues.

3) Bars
The chances of finding a lasting relationship in a bar is close to nil, but you get to chat with interesting people — even for just one night. When you frequent bars, do not expect to find someone searching for a serious and committed relationship. Don't go there to find a boyfriend, just have fun!

4) Places of worship
Never underestimate the power of many gathered by faith or spirituality. In these places, you will meet like-minded people who share your values and decent personalities. Go to your local parish or place of worship and check out what programs they have for singles like you.

5) Sports centers, gyms and activity Halls
There are so many low impact but fun sports to do. Take you pick: bowling, rock climbing, tae bo, boxing, tennis, etc. They are sprouting everywhere, faster that you can say mushroom. Chances are, singles like you will also be there to pass the time away.

There are so many ways to shed your current single status. Again, there is nothing wrong with being single. If anything, you are even lucky because you have all the time to do and decide on whatever you want without having to answer to anyone.

Enjoy the single life!

stop being nice

i can't sleep.. darn! i can't help but surf the net for almost anything and everything.. i'm thinking why does this creature acts too kind to share me even his most little things.. i hate him for doing that.. damn.. i don't know how am i supposed to accept that.. sometimes, he made me feel so important, so special.. but i always started thinking that he might also doing the same to other girls.. he's just so gentle to everybody.. almost everybody.. i don't want to get any other messages on his 'i-am a nice guy' profile..
the word 'nice' is a toughie.. he might just wanted to please everyone.. but why? why does he had to be nice? his actions really appears suspicious..

you've been a part of me..

I like the way everyday were holding our phone message, miss call and call each other.. I like the way I can’t concentrate on a things that im doing, I like the way you look at me, and I watch you talk, you didn’t notice?

I hear the words, but all I can think now is we should be together but we can’t cause I know, were just until friends.. When you smile I also smile, I don’t think if this is a dream only, you hold my hand tight and every time I go, your gonna tell me“ no! Don’t go please stay with me”..

In that time, remember the time we walk together and laughing, I remember when you got scared at a dog and I became your protection.. We talk so sweet, shared some conversation about ourselves, but you know the nice topic that we shared is when you ask about my plan for my future. There’s a part when I become serious, and I suddenly tell to you “ok, this is the last moment that were together”..

we both know that were not yet ready to forget each other ,but we need to, like what you said before, life is life. I’m so happy for you that you got your own now.. but why should you leave me here, after all, now I just want to be friends with u and not to disturb your life now with her.. I got my pleasant to thank someone like you, because you give me a unforgettable memories.. Honestly, this simply saying im miss being with.. But we have to let go and move on and be thankful that we don't just don't have each other.. But we became part of each others life that brought us where we are now..

Why You Shouldn’t Take the Next Step with Your Best Friend

We have all had one time or another where we have had a crush on a friend or even a best friend. If you are caught up in the crush and are enjoying the flirting and your friend doesn’t seem to mind, then that is fine. If it is the feel of the chase you love then you might need to mature a bit more in the relationship and love department before you attempt to make a move on your closest friend. This type of situation may lead to massive disappointment for both of you and injure what you have. If you are thinking of disclosing your hearts desire to your best friend and they have never shown you any love signs then you might want to think again. If you are lucky and you know that your best friend feels the same way then this might be an option for you to try, but if there is no reciprocation, flirtation or feelings, then your heart might be in for a let down. Love is such a precious feeling and has to be treasured and respected. It is good to truly sit down and think about why you want to take things further. Ask yourself these questions. Would they be a suitable match for me? Is there a future for us? Am I attracted to my best friend sexually? What are my real reasons? Am I afraid to be alone?

Sometimes it is better to keep a best friend a friend and stay that way. When you cross the line with your best friend, your friendship will be changed forever. Even if you can put what happened or what was said behind you, one of you may end up broken hearted because these feelings brought up were not acknowledged in the end. This can lead to resentment and jealousy in the future and destroy a friendship. Because two friends hang out so much together, the one that is in love or has an attraction begins to see themselves as a couple. This can end up becoming a distorted view and can result in so many painful feelings when the feelings are not returned. Unrequited love is a hard situation to go through and can take a long time to heal from. This is why in some friendships it is best to reconsider before taking the friendship to a new level.

Many people think how wonderful it will be to begin a new love relationship with their best friend. They are around all the time, they trust you, you trust them, their cute enough, they are a good friend..there is no reason not to! But there is something missing though and that is the level of love and passion that happens and sparks between two people when they fall in love. Make sure you really think this one over before making any sudden moves because your choice can result in three different ways. You either are best friends for life, broken hearted, or for the lucky ones; you have your soul mate. This is quite the gamble to take, so think it through before you jump the gun.

confused

is one of the ways to know its love is by the physical responses I have for this new found friend when in his presence or thinking about him? I do shiver? Get goosebumps? Blush? Sweat? Feel tingly all over? Cry when saying goodbye? Get stomach flip flops or butterflies? Feel like there is a lump in my throat? Can’t stop smiling? Feel warm and fuzzy? All of these physical responses are indicators that I may have found true love, but only when paired up with the other clues in this list. My God, I’m just beginning to know him. Come to think of it, a common friend . It’s just that it’s totally weird. We always send messages through messengers, and texts. We manage to be comfortable to each other through virtual communication. In real, we merely utter maximum of 10 words per encounter. See? I share a lot of me to him, even the most little things that happening in my weird world. He do the same thing. And now I’m getting confused, is he trying to show generic friendliness? or is he using me to get close to one of my friends/team mates? (guys always do this as a way to get close to somebody else) or is he building this friendship for something more for us? I don't want to jump to any conclusion right now. I might misunderstood his messages, what he is trying to show. I might be wrong again. I am damn to afraid to commit same mistake I did before to a guy friend. I know that they are totally different from each other. It’s just that I’m in a hurry that time to know how that guy feels about me. He expresses himself too much for me to expect something more than our friendship. But then, I expected too much and found out that he’s just having fun. What if they are the same? What if this new guy just want to have fun? I’ll be committing a pride-eating moment to fall down on my knees, shouting this f***ing feelings out of me. Or maybe he’s not.

They are really the opposite of each other. This guy’s so sensitive. He says sorry when he needs to. He greets me with good morning as I woke up, cares about me when I’m on travel and says good night when my day ends. He cheers me up with his corny jokes. He even go to my place to tease me with his limited words. Although he’s not my ideal guy, he seems to be the one who makes my gloomy day brighter, makes me smile when I’m totally stressed out of work, makes me comfortably say secrets to him. I remember my deceased loved one from him. They are both weird, silent people who manage to cheer up a groaring-tigress like me. Even if they know that I’m too quite hard to handle, they bend their knees to humble themselves for me. (Sigh..) I’m comparing again. I know they are different and unique from each other. Let’s just say they have similar traits. Yeah, they are unique.

I just hope that this friendship lasts longer. Come what may. I’m used to his presence and can’t afford to woke up a new morning without this someone to paint my first smile for the day. If he feels the same way, it’ll be the one of my happiest day, if not, I will just be contented enough that our friendship works.

my first blog

whew.. it's my first blog on this site.. i really find it really hard to think of the blog name that i will used.. nakakatawa i had to search on a 'baby name finder' site just to come up with the name that will best fit my future blogs.. it took me an hour to decide(not that long..)


just a lil something about my blog name.. Ashira in Hebrew means 'i will sing', viva means 'life' in Latin.. I will sing life.. that's it.. I'll try to blog about life.. the spices about my life.. try lng tlga.. hindi ko lng kc sigurado up to what extent ko kaya.. @_@

anybody can try naman d b? i hope just by blogging what i feel at the moment will lessen my burdens.. my frustrations, and of course i'll be sharing my happiness.. thoughts about everything,anything..

for now, this will be the meat of my piece.. @_@